Back when my sister in law was my brother’s girlfriend, and I was 15, she was 18, she used to sleep in my room on weekends (she lived about an hour away and would spend every weekend at my parents’ house and I had 2 single beds in my room).

I had a friendly dickhead apartment ghost in my old place. We never named him tho just referred to him as ghost or fucker.

What the fuck?!

Jesus fucking Christ! You win. I don’t even need to read the other stories!

I’m not sure I could get myself to do that. It may not be rational but I would feel so much more scared and vulnerable hiding in the trees than sitting in my locked car. Even though thst is completely stupid and a broken down car is pretty damn easy for a murderer to break into...

There was also the one last year or the year before about the young woman’s encounter with Nils Christensen(?)

Hahaha I’m super anal about not wasting electricity (thanks dad!) So when my partner is home I always shut off every light that we do not directly need at any given moment.

Shit I forgot about that one!

There have been plenty that have scared the shit out of me over the years but Look at Me is the only one that scarred me so badly that I could retell it without missing a detail at any given time lol

I’m fine as long as my partner is home with me. But last year I made the mistake of spending hours reading all these stories while I was out of town for a conference and staying in a very old hotel that is famously haunted, in a tiny room thathas super creepy shadows and poorly places mirrors. I didn’t sleep a fucking…

There is no reason why a woman needs a pelvic exam every time she gets her birth control prescription renewed. A PAP smear once every 2 years and an annual check in are standard routines that every woman should bring doing whether she is on birth control or not. But sometimes life gets busy and not having the time to…

Anti-women.

Ugh... they’re the same assholes who just want to “agree to disagree”.

It is nice to hear nother woman has been doing the same thing. I know I have said and done things in the past due to ignorance thst I would never say or do today. I’m committed to doing better and to learning to be better. And I hope that if I say or do something shitty going forward someone will call me out on it so…

What’s super weird is that the guy who raped me was a Kevin B.... coincidence I am sure haha

The best thing you can do is acknowledge your past behaviours to yourself and in open dialogue with friends and others when the topic comes up, and use those past experiences to illustrate the flaws in our culture. Simple admitting “I crossed lines in the past that i have since learned are wrong” can make such a huge…

I would be interested to hear whether he responds or not and, if So, what that response is.

Ugh.. that line always bothered me.

I am absolutely awedby your bravery and grace. This can’t have been an easy thing for you to do. I have thought many, many times about reaching out to the man who raped me... I’ve written letters that I’ve never sent... But I can’t bring myself to do it. Part of me is afraid that he will gaslight me and try to…

I’m not buying that he didn’t know she was sleeping. Like, really dude?? I don’t care if you’ve never even kissed a girl before, no amount of inexperience explains how a person can just not tell another person is sleeping when they go to touch them....