You might want to ask yourself what you find appealing about people who are unfaithful to their partners and emotionally unavailable to you. Does "stealing" someone else's man make you feel more desirable? Are you avoiding intimacy? Playing out some childhood trauma? It sounds really trite, but the fact that you…

It doesn't matter whether you are more or less culpable than your sexual partner. What matters is that you are culpable, you're bringing pain to someone else and you could choose to avoid playing a part in that scenario. Maybe he would have cheated with someone else, maybe not, but you're in real murky territory if…

Wait, isn't at least part of the reason Jackie's story has been questioned because the fraternity had no member who met her description? So who, exactly, has been falsely accused here? Also, she didn't make a report to the police, which is necessary for criminal prosecution of false charges. So it's really unclear…

You're not encouraging anyone to report; you're attacking people who don't behave exactly like you. You're dismissing the very real concerns of victims and those who care about them. It's bad enough that they've been violated by their attackers, they should be further violated by civil crusaders who've appointed…

No, I didn't read that. Clearly, I only read selected words of your post and skipped the rest so that I could pick on you. It's not at all that the overall tone of your post is finding fault with a victim of sexual assault and her friend so that you could tell a self-aggrandizing story. It's not at all that focusing…

I read well, thanks. After your disclaimer, you ask why "they" didn't notify the hosts of the party. Meaning the victim and her friend. And, for the record, I'm not outraged. I was be,used by your need to tell us all how you'd have handled this situation better.

Drugs like ketamine work quickly and also screw up your sense of time. It can feel like you're sipping a drink and — BLINK — it's hours later, you're in a different place but you're certain only seconds have passed. They also can make you feel weirdly detached, which is another reason why some of the victims may not…

Clearly, you would have done a much better job at being assaulted by Bill Cosby. Congratulations.