Nope. I didn't say that only black people have baby hairs at all. I said that this specific styling of them is unique to black and latina women.

Solid strategy: stop reading the second you find something to be bothered about. If you keep reading then the rest of the paragraph might fix the problem, and you won't be able to feel put upon and make it about you.

One of the hottest doctors I've ever seen delivered my second son (via c-section). Nothing like having a crush on someone who's seen your insides! After my son was born, and the doc was sewing me up, I said to my midwife, "Make sure he puts my insides back the way he found them, OK?", and from behind the drape, he…

I've had patients legitimately hit on me — one immediately after her abortion, and another right after a pelvic exam.

Oh, come on. COME ON. You are being weird and whiney right now. No one is condoning standing people up. It's a dick move. NO ONE CARES YOU ARE MALE. NO ONE. Not one person. It is neither here nor there. You are making this about you because you are entitled and a little deluded and really, really bad at staying…

I don't give two shits about your sex. I do think standing someone up is shitty. I have no idea if her cat really did get lost. I don't care. Standing outside in the heat for two hours and not getting a drink shows a real inability to care for yourself on the most basic level and that has NOTHING to do with that woman.

Right? These women might actually HAVE BEEN INTERESTED until they went 45 minutes without checking their phone and the dude went nuts on them. Maybe they weren't even planning on ignoring the guy. They didn't even get the chance to say "Yes, let's date" or "no thank you."

Oooooohhhhhhh, got you to respond! Victory is mine!

He doesn't want to talk to you. You should keep replying to him for the next several days. Let him get a taste of what women experience.

!!!! "reverse-sexism" - I think we can all disengage now, it's a lost cause. :)

It's not that woman's fault that you did not have enough to drink.

Because, obviously from your response, you are one of these guys who simply refuses to take a woman's word for it. I just read dozens of coherent, rational, logical replies to your question and you decided to dismiss everything everyone said to you and restate your question.

So, you think your desire to get more straightforward responses is more important than our very real fears that a hard "no" will be met with harassment or even violence?

Being close to a woman does not mean that you understand anything about women. There are many, many married misogynists. Your wife is not your shield. You are still speaking from privilege, from the knowledge that you will never have to actually deal with this scenario so you are completely safe in your position of…

You need to listen to the many women here who are telling you precisely why you are wrong.

I used to agree with you. Then I met this guy on OKC. I had made a profile exclusively for the purpose of reading other people's crazy profiles and had no interest in actually dating anyone. A guy messaged me who seemed really cool, so I fessed up to what my deal was. He thought I was funny, so we chatted a lot. The…

Oh, your wife hangs out on a lot of dating sites? Interesting.

That was one of my favorite parts! I love that he needed Freakonomics to teach him that people will be more interested in you if you say something interesting. I love that he thinks it makes him sound smart when he admits that.

If there was a tumblr for these, I would never work again.

So the racist guy lives up to every part of the stereotype, from demanding which "kinds" of guys she likes through filthy language and a stop at Station Free Speech. I'd swear it was some kind of performance art if I wasn't depressingly positive that this is a real person who thinks this is some kind of debate in…