If what he wrote about "being there" has any truth to it (i.e. he's done this to that girl before and is advocating that others do the same) then anything less than jail time is an insult to all women everywhere.

If anything this highlights to me the fact that rape is not a sex thing, it's a power thing. Because pretending to be someone's friend for months just so that you can sex them is a ton of work when you can get laid pretty easily by just, you know, being a decent person and caring about other people.

Anything less than JAIL is a travesty of the criminal justice system.

This letter should have said the student had been arrested and expelled for sexual assault, harrassment and inciting illegal activity. AGH!!!!

I never said I don't think homophobia within straight women exist. If you had read my posts you'd know that I struggled with myself for a long time becauseI thought seeing overwhelming patterns of misogyny and male privilege and right wing politics meant that I would think within homophobic structures. Then I realize…

That fucker needs to be kicked out and arrested immediately. He needs to have his life ruined, at least to the extent he doesn't graduate from an Ivy League school and get the easy path to the banking job or whatever. She should stay and the school should get their act together and help her and other young women. …

Nope, I'm not an English speaker. Shocking concept I know.

Nope, I'm not a native speaker of English. Shocking concept I know.

Except that those women don't exist apart from tv shows and Britney Spears talking about "her gays" and if you read my posts you could conclude from them that I despise that woman and everything she stands for.

The Wire.

There is this piece written by Rohnin Gua. You could read it you know.

Please, go and do something constructive. I hear books are a great thing. It saves us both a lot of time. Or I dunno meeting "straight female women" who don't fit your criteria. How about lesbian women? They could tell you something about homophobia coming from gay men shutting them out. But then again they are not…

Sex and the City was a fictional show hated by many. Just to let you know you shouldn't really be looking there for "straight female culture"

And sorry but there is no straight female culture. Maybe in the clubs you are hanging out.

Oh so you are a gay man. Makes sense. Sorry, I never "accessorized" with a gay men if you have read my posts you could see that I despise that thought of thing. But I know the experiences I made and I learned my lesson. I'm not going to ever approach gay men with a naivete of "these are your allies" anymore and I…

Except this is not about random gay men thinking and behaving this way because then this article characterizing it wouldn't exist and neither would all the reactions about here and on all the other blogs linked to.

I bet if you end the faux outrage and think for a few seconds, you could come up with the answer.

Yep. Completely relevant. It displays his proclivities for young girls that aren't his biological children. Evidence is evidence, and this isn't non sequitur or ad hominem; it's completely relevant.

I think his relationship with Soon-Yi Previn could be argued as relevant. Another adopted child from the household, much younger than him.... come on.

I haven't read this all yet - it's pretty long - but I definitely will.