Clients generally have ZERO input or interest in how papers are served.  The fact that anything is being made of this at all to make Sudeikis look bad is pretty despicable.

It’s NOT bullshit. I’ve worked with process servers in the past. The stuff you see on tv about them doing whatever it takes to serve papers is basically true. They will dress up as delivery guys, pretend to be clients, raging fans, etc. to get the job done. Sudeikis would have no say on the matter regarding that. That…

If you can’t skip KarTRASHian news, please at least avoid making them the top item?

There’s no way she had an emergency section. The incision for a crash section is usually (although not always) vertical and would absolutely show with all the crop tops she wears. No medical staff in any hospital anywhere would ask the spouse to choose between the baby and the mom. A crash section would require at…

Agreed (although Dottie is a close second in my heart to Marla Hooch. Marla 4 EVAR!!!). But overall, I’m much more of a fan of A League of their Own than I am of Bull Durham. Bull Durham is quirky and fun and light, but if you’re asking me to name a movie that speaks to me about what baseball is for a woman, it’s…

This is true.

I totally empathize with the professor. Dating Brad Pitt only to end up being forced to talk on the phone all day is exactly the kind of horrible luck I would have too.

I really think you’re stuck on the idea that men do all the initial legwork. That just doesn’t hold true in my lived experience. I, for instance, literally networked among friends to meet my husband. He was at home gaming, feeling vaguely sad he hadn’t met anyone. Real life. I cannot think of many men who actually ask…

Infidelity and gaslighting creates it’s own traumas. In some worse than in others. I think theres some messed up perspective that assumes that women aren’t or shouldn’t be scarred by cheating while we readily acknowledge men to be “emasculated” by “cuckolding” (two words that don’t even have female equivalents). It’s…

Im sorry people are jumping on you; you can feel sorry both for a victim and for the people he victimizes. You can think of the women he hurt because their hurt due to his trauma helps us understand the full scope of how terrible trauma and abuse is, since it doesn’t just hurt the person who experienced but so many…

I read the piece. One thing that stuck out to me in this piece was that it hits on what I think is a common theme in life and in entertainment: hurt men — men who have suffered in whatever awful ways, often abuse women on their road to healing. And, as in this piece, the suffering of those women is kind of written…

I completely agree. I feel sorry for what happened to him as a child. But I also feel sorry for the women who suffered the gaslighting and abuse he visited upon probably dozens of them in his life. But, how can a man truly claim real suffering, if he hasn’t visited more suffering on women? 

Women are free to feel however they wish about it. But opinions and feelings don’t change the reality that this custom only exists in the first place to dehumanize and control women within a patriarchal religious system. This is true of any misogynistic custom, I’m not singling out head coverings, it’s just the…

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