Doesn’t confident make people attractive? I think people that are confident have some kind of aura or charisma around them that make them seem so much more attractive that they really are...

Don’t worry kid, I missed the “career” wagon about 10-15 years ago and look at me now... Drinking Gin&Tonic by the pool, with a good book and texting my friends about all the bad life choices we made and where we gonna travel next... It's really not that bad ;P

I wish I was making that up! It’s one of my favorite in my rotation of “weird things that happens only to us” stories. The worst part is that the person didn’t notice anything and just kept walking!

Exactly, it have nothing to do with the “age”.

And even then, I’m not judging! It’s really not that bad, if you are both comfortable who are we to judge you?

No, I’m sorry. These are not the commenters you are looking for :)

Telling people to wears a condom is good... if only they could listen!

You get jealous? This is new to me! I love this!

Getting over self esteem issues is easier said than done.

Don’t feed the troll, it’s not worth it

“Polyamory is literally the most rediculous and insufferable romantic concept I’ve ever heard someone justify.”

I think that is simply UNACCEPTABLE (for my set of values of course, some people can make it work and it’s so puzzling for me, but I respect that!). I think that when someone one can get something that they other can’t it’s unfair and disrespectful.

Yes, because for you, it wasn’t attractive. You didn’t feel beautiful. And that probably had a huge impact on how you interacted with people. But truth be told, it was your mind set that had an impact, not the weight per say...

I can’t understand how people can pull off “monogamous” relationship either!

4 years is nothing =___= Really nothing.

I was about to go in mad rage if you were to say that the big issue was your weight (no pun intended). Weight have NOTHING to do with attractiveness!

I think it’s because it is often (but not always) directed to the problems that face “nerdy” or “gamers” people. Like if I should take my long distance WoW relationship to the next level? Does my FFXIV girlfriend really exist? Do I come across as a creepy dude if I ask out the girl at the game store? What is a vagina…

I’m not “attractive” by hollywood standards. I’m 30+, i’m chubby and I somehow always manage to have the monstrous alien looking thing growing on my face, like a 16 years old kid. My ex-husband was a monster lumberjack looking dude, with a unkept beard and once, waiting for me, sitting at the bus stop, somebody…

I agree with you.

This. It’s this.