Last summer I got my ovulation dates wrong and had to take Plan B. Mr Tutie and I have 2 kids (2, 4) together and his 16 year old son from his first marriage. I called and made his vasectomy appointment as I was leaving the pharmacy. The Plan B worked and I was relieved. And then was careless as fuck for the month and…

That is an amazing burn. Or maybe it was an anonymous, loving, present?

Oh for fucks sake...

The whole point is... if she said she was done with makeup and she’s not, then girls who look up to her are being lied to. It’s way *more* hurtful than if she had just said “I’m avoiding wearing makeup most of the time. I’m still going to wear some when I feel like it, but I feel that overall, it’s not necessary.”

Be open about it. Say “I’m switching to makeup free for most of my life. There will be times when I will wear it - and that’s ok.”

Then she needs to say that. “I’m wearing makeup for the cameras - the same as the men - but only because otherwise I would be shiny and washed out under the lights and would be hard to film”. Or whatever. She’s not saying that, though.

I have stated that I don’t care if she wears makeup. If she said “I wear makeup for the show because otherwise I look shiny and it doesn’t photograph well” I would not care. As it stands, she presenting as “all natural, no makeup,” which is a lie.

And I know plenty of vegetarians with leather goods that were purchased before they switched. With some of them it’s been *years* that they’ve owned said items - because leather lasts and they don’t want to be wasteful. So, to me I don’t see it the way you see it.

If you make it part of your branding that you don’t wear makeup, then yes. You should say “the tv people were having trouble with the shine on my face so I wear very minimal makeup to help with filming.” Or whatever. But don’t say one thing and do another.

Excuse me? Excuse you! I *never* maligned her in such a way. And I never would. I call liars liars. I don’t call liars whores.

Yes. I did.

I DONT CARE IF SHE WEARS MAKEUP. I care how she presents herself: as a no makeup wearer who WEARS MAKEUP.

Ok. How about this. You do more to your face than I do. And self tanner? Yeah, that changes the color of your skin. Serums, toners, strict skincare system. Yeah. She’s wearing a *tinted* moisturizer. Aka - FOUNDATION.

She said she wasn’t wearing makeup. She’s wearing makeup. To you... who wears makeup a lot, it’s not makeup. To me, who doesn’t... it’s makeup.

To me, someone who genuinely does not wear makeup unless it’s a special occasion and even then it’s masacara, eye liner, shadow (two shades max and barely blended), and lipstick (no foundation or anything), it’s makeup. The instant you have to use a beauty blender or sponge or brush or whatever... it’s makeup.

No, he was calling her out for being a hypocrite. She said she stopped wearing makeup. She’s wearing makeup.

Nice. She’s 13. A minor. Nice.

Stuff is on YouTube! We went to a few concerts when I was little. Including front row one time. I *loved* them so much.

Our Siamese cat Baby (then about 2 years old) was distraught upon our return from the first vacation we had ever taken in his life. Like, DISTRAUGHT. My dad had to take my sister back to college (winter break was over) the same day we got home from Florida. (We live in MN and drove - ugh.) My mom was tired from…

We danced to “I’ll take romance” by The Nylons. It’s light, peppy, reasonably innoffensive. We reread all the lyrics before picking it. We made mix cd’s as our favors. Every single song had to mean something to us, flow to the next song, and lyrics had to be clear and unambiguous.