Still. Doesn’t this mean that the majority of people do not care about appearances?!

Nope. I read the same.

I was offered the advice of "you need some gravitas" by someone - yes, a woman - who had received it at a younger age. She's quite smiley too. As am I. Personally, people who don't smile make me uncomfortable. Might be why i resort to humour shortly after I meet someone. I need to check they are human. I need to make…