I think it can definitely get complicated, especially if one or more parties feels as though they're not "enough." It's hard to explain to your dude that it doesn't mean you don't love them enough, it's that you have many sides to your essential personality, like the article mentions. I like being two different…

I've been shocked to realize that being with 2 dudes is kind of the most satisfying of situations for me. I'm not really "out" about it yet because how do you talk about this stuff without sounding like a selfish asshole? Especially cuz like, I don't wanna live with both dudes, I'd like them to be independent…

I did the UO one twice because I have no self control. Even bought poorly reviewed items. Right now I'm feeling shame and exhilaration. Are donuts and coffee in the back?

Babs has kinda always been a lil slow on the uptake. I say this as someone who watches The View on the semi-reg just to torture myself.

This is really shocking. Just 1 in 10?

Genius, genius, genius.

Exactly, Wheezer. There's more social and even commercial support for hetero males as the higher-desire partner, just watch any sitcom. Being in that position as a hetero woman is pretty lonely, in my experience. Plus the double edged sword of the situation being emasculating itself, discussing it draws attention…

He's not my spouse but yeah, unfortunately all efforts to communicate gently, productively, unemasculatingly were shut down toute de suite. Ah, well. It's not torturing me at all *bites nails to cuticle. Thanks for the guidance, anyway!

My own research suggests at least 2x/wk is average; I'd settle for much less. I wonder if it's harder for a woman to be the lower-libidoed of a hetero couple. There's a lot of cultural support for males who don't feel sexed enough.

so, i guess most couples have sex at least once every 2 weeks? :/