oh yes, i did leave the guy in question. I find it facinating you assume it was all me that ruined the relationship and not anything that he could have done that would do anything. I actually tried to get an IUD so we could have *more* sex thinking it would help our relationship. He made that not happen by refusing to…

You did not read what I was saying. IT IS NOT THE SAME THING. Not everytime a woman doesn't want to have sex immedately is not a mind game. There are legitimate reasons why a male or female wouldn't want to have sex particularly after an argument.

If I'm not feeling happy, comfortable or safe with a person I don't want to have sex with them. Theres nothing mean spirited about me not wanting them to intrude on a very personal part of me body when I'm feeling that way. Frankly, if they don't want a cold fish, then they are better off waiting until I'm feeling…

Very true that people don't know how to cook. Its unfortunate that home ec has been taken out of schools...I'm really thinking of starting a blog on how to cook cheap and simple.

As someone who runs a farm with animals by herself and works a full off the farm job I think I know what it means to "not have time." Yes, I've raised kids and they do throw a wrench in things.

As someone who lived 8 miles out of town with no car and not bus I think I know what a food desert is. I think I got to go…

I don't know that people can't afford to cook at home...I really believe thats a misnomer. Infact, its a pet peeve of mine. Hold on: here I gooooooo!

Could also be because the food in London is terrible.

That said: I walked more than I ever have when I lived in Tokyo, yet I put on weight. Can't say "no" to street ramen or donburi, apperently.

Thanks for the explanation! Makes the who thing seem a tad different.

Nope. Can't be done. because people want to be "entertained," and few people actually listen to the lyrics/stories. When we are at work I point out the redundancy of songs and folks are like, "dude, I never noticed! I just heard the beat!"

What? Small children shouldn't have contact with animals until they are older? really? do we need to keep them in bubbles, too?

Ha! I had a co-worker like that! I was trying to talk to my boss about ordering parts that were on back order by a couple weeks and trying to come up with a solution. Dude kept interupting and tried to make the conversation about himself. aaaarg! so annoying!

Whatever. Our dungies taste fine without old bay spice. WE don't have to cover our crab's flavor up....and our population of crabs is still healthy because we only eat the males of a certain size leaving a the females to all get bred and reproduce.

Totally not medically "kosher" to recommend this but: I had to take some anti-biotics that killed my gut flora. Had an iron stomach, then ended up with such a sensitive stomach rice and miso soup hurt it.

trying...to...resist...arguing with troll...

no. my pants were still on. he pulled them off.

I was at a friends birthday party, at her boyfriends parents house surrounded by people i knew. My friends told me this guy was straight up nice. What else could I have done? Seriously, it was a "safe place." Yet....he felt like he had the right once we were cuddling to pull my pants off and stick his dick in. even…

Well, you know, when a guy insists hes a gentleman and just wants to cuddle and all your friends go, "yeah, actually, he is a great guy!" you don't think hes going to tear your pants of and shove his dick in .03 seconds.

I must always be drunk because I attract creepers everywhere!

BTW the party was at a friends house out in the country. not the city. not a bar.

I've got a bad ass friend who recently did a home water birth ALL BY HERSELF. In a stock tank*. In the middle of the night. With only a single candle lit in the room. Because shes amazing. Made me think twice about my view of home births.