"Here's the thing: It's really hard to be outraged about these men going to great lengths to bulk up and lean down, even while reading about the dangerous health risks and blatant exploitation and objectification, because I LOVE IT. I LOVE IT SO MUCH."

I'm not saying that the only thing that keeps me from running around and raping people is because I don't like the "rapist" label. And while I'm not a social scientist, I believe that very few of us cast ourselves as the villain in our story. I believe that most rapists rape because they believe that their victims a)…

I may get flamed for this, but I did see that it "became consensual toward the end" in the way that Cersei physically responded to Jaime. So, if that was what the director was going for, I guess he succeeded in that. For me, anyway.

This! OMG. Amen.

And, I submit that your life would probably be less stressful (although not necessarily happier, more cordial, or less dramatic). Stress is not the source of all sorrow, and sometimes things that alleviate stress (like letting go of a deep, dark secret and not allowing it to have power over you anymore) bring other…

It happens to this (gay) guy all the time.

I think it probably has more to do with the fact that the same writers are writing material for actors they've come to know fairly well, so some thematic stuff is going to occur. And I actually like the fact that each season of AHS is its own unique entity, especially since they want to recycle much of the cast…

Speaking from the point of view of the homosexual man, I loved this, but have one small quibble: it's not that we got over the 'hating girls' phase at age 10 or 11 - we never entered it at age 7. Girls are much safer friends for a young gay boy than boys are. And until we fix society, this remains true well into…