I like the idea. It certainly seems to solve the problem for the parents. But I wonder if it eliminates a learning opportunity for the kids? For example, it's easy to keep kids from whining - give them everything they want. But that raises them to be spoiled. Perhaps by having everything color coded things will be…

The best thing about it, in my experience, is that there might be some angle you forgot to consider in your talks. Additionally, a good pre-marital counseling has time with each of you separately as a chance to see if there are some things you don't feel comfy saying in front of each other.

Both hilarious and potentially scary in the moment. And it makes sense - considering we were talking about accidental babies in this article. But does nothing to protect you from STD/STIs (not sure what the real difference is between those two) So hopefully they also told you that the dude needed a condom as well.

Yeah, that's what I meant. Not that it's right to call the black stuff bad - it's actually revealing of subconscious racism. But rather, that's why all the white kids (or even non-whites who live rich lifestyles) want to do it.

Of course, the dirty secret of why black culture is cool is that it's "bad". I doubt suburban kids would care as much about it if it wasn't a way to rebel.

Unicorn sex sounds like some pretty awesomely kinky sex move. lol.

exactly. It's not so much about being judgmental as it is about making sure kids don't make life-changing mistakes. Once you're an adult you can presumably make those decisions and live with them.

Yeah, I'm not too keen on that. Then again, I don't have an xbox so nyah nyah on Microsoft.

Exactly. Also, it's about consequences. Life has consequences. Orgasms are fleeting - children are not.

Don't worry - I hear ya. You make a very, very good point.

wow, neat.

She's all good now, but it was a traumatic first couple weeks of her life - probably way more for us than for her when it's all said and done.

Ah, yes. The ole "it's not men's fault those vaginas attract them like flies to a light" tact.

Good point. Sometimes women can be the worst advocates for women according to studies (usually related to the glass ceiling). I think the only thing we have to worry about is her getting stonewalled if important people are accused. Other than that, I think this is a great sign that things are improving going forward.

Have you really not heard about this? There's a whole network of people using software to turn on web cams and film (mostly women) and then try to blackmail them into more sexiness in front of the camera. These guys (mostly guys) trade access to the computers they've compromised and refer to these women as slaves. Ars…

I think it's definitely true. Other crimes I haven't thought about nearly as much as this one.

That's pretty awesome. Good move on their part. I'm sure haters will say it's not fair because she's a woman and will side with a woman. But try to get them to explain why a man wouldn't side with a man. (Same happened with some of the Supreme Court judges that were appointed recently)

In my house we do the more logical thing of everyone doing what they're good at. And what both of us can do - we both do. So my wife cooks. I cut the grass. We both do laundry. We both sweep and mop. And so on. So it's not a man/woman thing it's an efficiency thing.

Anyone else read this in a dirty frame of mind?

Also, usually is the same demographic that's all cool with the US waging war all over the place. Usually leading to dead kids. But I guess it's all cool if they're dead brown kids? o_O