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Weird sex talk, at that. /kinkshame

“Baby” isn’t a pet name, it’s a misogynist putdown.

Yes, I am aware that the dynamic is different. That doesn’t mean it is appropriate or acceptable. Such behavior can be seen as belittling or even intimidating or harassing, even though the customer is in the position of power with regard to tip etc.

Same advice. Did you read the article?

Say “Get the fuck out of my bar”.

The bar and its ownership, (so int his case probably the hotel chain) may be liable. The individual servers almost certainly will not be. Employees are almost never liable for the things they do as a part of their day to day job unless they’re acting beyond the scope of their job or acting directly against the

If I go to Vegas and blow $22,000 on slots and shitty tropical drinks do I get it back just because I was on a bender? No? I don’t see why this guy would either then.

I was expecting a story where a guy maybe wrote some extra zeroes on a tip line by mistake or something but this is not even a debate. He fucked up and

Dude was just following the Salty Waitress’ advice on tipping, I don’t see the big deal, that amount sounds about right

Even with this settlement, I’m still done with the NFL. Save for a select few quarterbacks, the league has shown that it doesn’t care for players. They don’t care to address domestic violence. They don’t care for the cities they play in, and whether it’s a battered wife, a broken lineman, or a financially ruined city,

Canadians ARE polite folk. 

This is probably sort of graphic, but whatever.

Not the ending anyone wanted, but I like the precedent this sets:

The part where did not force himself on her in any way?

I see that you’re deliberately ignoring the part where he let her go home at her request and texted her immediately the next day to apologize and she accepted his apology.

Grammer also offered a few potential plot details, confirming that they want to keep the “same group of characters” around, but “in a different setting.”

Episode one: Frasier spills sherry on a priceless Mondrian he has just gotten authenticated, and it’s now a race against time to get it fixed in time to display before the Opera Society, and in a subplot, Niles mocks Roz for being loose.

“I’m so sorry to interrupt. We do need this table for another reservation.”

Being in my 50s (and having been a server for a number of years), I’m perfectly aware of the tradition of taking orders from the women at a table before the men - but declaring “Ladies go first” is tacky and stupid (and still rude), even within that context. There’s a difference between following etiquette and telling

Getting a coffee one night, I had a guy behind the counter tell me that the gentleman always pays (not to even mention that my BF came in a minute or two after me, so dude made a big assumption that we were even together)...

I was a server for a while and am old, but I can’t remember ever instructing my diners about archaic gender-appropriate social behavior rules.