<3 i just...the account is 99.5% of my experience with cishet men, and some lesbians. it's so awful yet pervasive and considered "the norm" that it makes me ill. this is why i don't date men anymore. I'm not entirely unattracted to them, but I'm completely over that jabby and fumbling and pushy and transactional shit.

I wasn’t aware someone not wanting to have anything jammed down my throat makes them a prude. “Jamming” isn’t exactly a word that screams consent.

It’s amazing how, when the conversation is about a progressive dude, suddenly “no means no” becomes

He stopped for literally a minute and then immediately tried to initiate again. Dude, if you clearly express your discomfort to someone and they repeatedly ignore your discomfort and clear signals to try and get their way, they have already violated you in a very profound way. They have shown you that to them, what…

No. This is a dangerous statement.

Any man who writes 2000+ words to defend something illegal has partaken and will continue to partake of it. They just need to convince the rest of the world that they’re not horrible monsters and try to do it by drowning us in words.

He seems to miss (initial post, not the novel, at least) that taking sexy pics isn’t the problem, it’s the posting of them online. Distribution, not possession.

you are a sexual abuser if you share private sexual photos publicly, because you are sexually violating someone by sharing intimate photos.

My dude, based on how strongly you’re defending revenge porn, I’m like 99% sure you’ve posted some. The Devil doesn’t need advocates, he does just fine on his own.

This is a blog comment. Pith, if you want people to participate in conversation.

Mental illness isn’t the cause of prejudice. Bigotry is taught; bipolar disorder, depression, and other mental illnesses can’t be taught. Also, speaking as a mentally ill person who’s been a SJW since childhood, fuck you for implying that we’re the same as people who choose to believe horrible things. This trend of…

1) Being an asshole should AND HAS ALWAYS BEEN a fireable offense. Usually the euphemism is something like “does not work well w/others.”

So you’re saying that repeated verbal and non-verbal responses like “Let’s just chill. Next time. I don’t want to be forced” and moving away over and over and over are just impossible to read? Really? REALLY?

Liam needs to STFU. “On the fence” about Dustin Hoffman? He bragged about losing his virginity via raping a girl. If you’re “on the fence” about that I hope you get sodomized by a picket.

That’s the name of his next movie. An old guy travels back in time to rescue his great-great-great-great-great (why not) grandmother from being burned at the stake. It turns out that she is really a witch and she summoned him back in time to kill the governor .

This is why I don’t comment anymore. Every time I see a few usernames I want to scream at them to shut the fuck up and listen for once in their goddamn lives, but I don’t want to be re-grayed for starting shit. If you’re a dude who comments repeatedly on almost every post and are reading this right now: please know…

More details on this in link below. Do not read while eating.

For some reason, your reply to Holy Hyena is completely different than your reply to me, despite the advice being nearly identical. I want to re-emphasize this: a stranger’s perception of you should not hold the same, or even remotely similar, importance as someone’s safety.

If you truly want to help a woman in this type of situation, stop focusing on yourself. If you shift your focus from yourself (I hope she doesn’t think I’m a creep, I hope she doesn’t yell at me or laugh at me), and onto her (How can I help this woman? Is this woman in real danger?), you’ll probably realise two things:

Dude, it is so much worse than just “having sex with a 13 year old”. Like, I would write out the details, but I don’t want to trigger anyone. It was so fucked up. Me and an ex had a huge argument about it because he tried to explain it away using the same, “it was the 70's” logic, even after I told him the details.…