White feminist here. Also with Flawless on repeat since the album came out.

Yes. It is the album we have been waiting for. I cannot fathom anyone thinking anything less.

That's because this album is EVERYTHING.

I think this is such an interesting discussion, because it's something I run up against with my bf a lot!

I love how in one post you talk about a biological difference that makes us better at something, and about how we are told our biological differences are "shortcomings".

the complete disconnect between what men say they want and what they actually want and/or what they actually communicate and what they mean

Me too! Though I'm not entirely sure it's really him I'm crushing on and not Peeta, who is my dream man (he bakes cakes, yo!)

is it, in fact, disingenuous when we argue that women clearly have agency about how they present their bodies, that they are free to present them sexually, and then express disappointment when the thing they turn around and do with their bodies is this textbook striptease straight out of the cheapest softcore, clearly…

Stop trying to make the JLaw backlash happen. It's not going to happen!

This is one of those moments when I wonder how it's possible for another human being to express my thoughts better than me. Thanks for that and rant on!

Yes! Thank you! I feel the movie that taught me all about the variety of drugs and sexual acts out there should at least get a honorable mention...