agreed completely to this!! the whole list she was clearly trying to be nice and saying please and she was making sure everyone knew these were just options of things she liked and she didn’t expect it all

Thats actually not true at all. Most 21 year olds are juniors in college that are fully supported by their parents. And if there aren’t a lot of other children in the family, this is normal to be the “kid” still on christmas. Can understood your point if she was out of college for a few years but I mean come on. Not…