I had a 5'7'' basketball coach that could dunk and played college in the US. We were in awe..

Yeah, it usually always boils down to wanting to stay in power/fear of losing said power. Humans aren't as complex (sadly)..

Oh, wow. This does sound interesting.

Cause we're getting too smart for their god?

I believe that the feeling of "threat" those creationists experience has more to do with this: if they have to change their stance on this, more of their (most often) hideous theories about how to live life according to this book can be questioned. This would open floodgates of critical thinking, which is actually a…

There's so much beauty in chaos, isn't it?

It's a very dangerous development, me thinks.

Preach it!

Refusing to become adults..

Interesting. And yes, since it's more about survival at that point, financial infidelity does more damage than the sexual one.

Meaning you'd be more willing to endure a somewhat strained relationship for the sake of your children?

:)

Not arguing against your agency to make that call, at all. I'm arguing against your call to make a big difference between financial and sexual infidelity. That's something I cannot understand, really..

Just out of curiosity: May I ask why being married would change that?
(I am married and have a joint account with my partner).

Nope, I'm not. My first sentence might have been a bit misconstructed. What I meant to critique on was your statement about money being able to be earned back, whereas the penis (vagina?) used for sexual infidelity is lost forever. (What absurd statement..)

Totally.

Well, you could both agree that flirting is a good thing to do, with clear boundaries though. But alas..

It's just that people here seem to make sexual infidelity out to be this incredibly bad thing vs. all the other infidelities to be rather small things. This double standard I have issues with..

Love your last sentence. So true. I'd add that not expecting your SO to be the perfect personification of your dreams helps as well. Looking at myself I see many flaws, so I should give my SO some leeway as well. We're humans, after all..

Have you both experienced this missing of excitement? Maybe a stern talk with some relationship adjustments could work wonders?