we’re made to feel like we’re over thinking things if we simply ask a damn question but fuck that

Wedding? Hmmm. Skip the mall. If you are adventurous try consignment shops. They have exceptional formal wear that has only been worn once. I’ve taken in dresses that I’ve paid hundreds of dollars for and only worn once because of weight flux. Just my two cents but you may find something really gorgeous for a fraction…

I replied to a comment above but I’d like to add that also in my experience quite often guys kinda assume they HAVE to say the casual thing. Because “that’s obviously what guys like” (?!) its so ingrained. Even if that’s not what they actually want, some people are relationship people, but guys aren’t really given…

Yes! And honestly, things change. I might agree to something casual and then 2 months in I feel differently. I shouldn't feel like I signed a damn contract and am never allowed to bring up the subject again. It's dumb. I'd rather ask how the other person feels than waste my time. But again, it's hard cause women are…

Duuuude scoresies on the online love connect! I think he sounds great and you know what you want to do - wait a month and then say something. It could just be that initial butterflies/great sex/infatuation faze making him be Needy McNeederson. He’ll probably cool off soon.

He’s attention-bombing you. Enjoy that while it lasts! It’s fun.

YES. Yes to ALL of this. I also think that quite often as women were labelled “emotional” so we’re the ones who are gunna fall in love or get too involved or be too clingy and when we’re not...I think a lot of guys (and gals) can feel insecure about it. (Even if it was previously agreed that it was completely casual.)

I totally jealous. It’s so nice you’ve found someone to have fun with!!
I’ve had zero luck lately. I had one coffee since I moved and while he was nice, I wasn’t feeling it... and just kind of ghosted on him, as much as I hate ghosting .... I don’t feel like I owe a guy I went on one coffee date with an explanation.

DYING from happiness. Also this GRAPHIC kitchen nightmare that happened earlier.

Wow, this looks great! All of the reviews seem to agree with you. Thank you! :)

If you want to know if you’re exclusive there’s nothing wrong with asking now. And all his texts and stuff after saying he wants to keep it casual seems it bit like he wants to have his cake and eat it too you know? So just be careful. I honestly think there’s nothing wrong with you saying “I know we talked and agreed…

I just want all Jezzies to know that I value them and appreciate them. Sometimes our life experiences may point us to different view points but I think that we can all agree that we agree on the fundamentals.

Christie conditionally vetoed a similar bill in November 2015, saying he’d rather focus on making it easier for domestic violence victims to get guns of their own.

You are my inspiration!!! thank you!!

WOOHOOOOOO! Congrats!!

Who invited this fucking guy?

Agreed with the above advice that she really needs a psychologist and psychiatrist if it’s so bad she can’t sleep at all, and she’s tried relaxation techniques. I realize money may be a concern, but she absolutely needs to put her health first or she won’t be able to be the mother and worker she needs to be. SSRI’s…

You’re supposed to read “Spinster” by Kate Bolick next. I think all the reviews for All the Single Ladies mention Spinster too.

Thanks for the recs. I love Matt Taibbi’s articles. I don’t know Bryan Stevenson but I’ll check him out.

I am happy I coudl help! I really feel empathy for her situation, and will say a prayer/send good thoughts that she can find herself a good and skillful specialist.You are a very good sister for looking out for her.