Nah. Throw his ass in jail. He’s not mentally ill, he’s just a young, dumb, entitled asshole who won’t deal with his drinking issues. He had his shot to deal with it, instead he abused a woman. Now it’s time he is told what to do for a while.

Fearing for your safety isn’t a good enough reason to end a life, to me. It’s way too vague; it could mean the cops were afraid they’d get cut, maybe even need some stitches, or break a bone. But that’s part of police work, you might get cut or break a bone. The only time it should be acceptable to end a life is when…

More like assault and badgery, amirite?

I’d argue his talent and ability would be wasted trying to wage that battle from inside city hall, as opposed to being the face of the movement, out on the front lines.

“I don’t believe suicide is selfish but man was this guy who committed suicide selfish.”

To your, my, and their perspective, you’re right. To Dave’s mind, you are probably wrong. To Dave, it was likely the most selfless thing he could think of. To free, not himself, but his loved ones from what he saw himself to be.

Yes! and I disagree slightly with Madeline on seat rests. The end people have full seat rests on either side so they should allow the middle person both middle seat rests. I have been on too many flights with a man on either side of me taking both seat rests while I scrunch into the middle, miserable. Lately I have…

I was once in the window seat of a row of three. There was a gentleman in the aisle seat. As the boarding process ended, it became clear that the middle seat was to remain blissfully empty and I felt immediate relief, until the gentleman picked himself up, scooted over, and started to lower his ass into the vacant…

fuck rand

Something that bothers me about all of the coverage of Daniel Holtzclaw is that I haven’t seen and heard enough about the gorgeous human being who brought him to justice: Jannie Ligons. I’ve endured every angle of Holtzclaw’s rage-y, deflated mug, and haven’t heard enough about the first police complaint, the first…

Do you also get the most incredulous faces? Like WHOA I AM A MAN YOU SEE ME RIGHT?

In a similar but unrelated note, I now bump into men who walk right into my path instead of moving to the side as we pass on narrow sidewalks.

That’s not how you use Throwing Shade. And that’s not the correct usage of Stay Woke. Gawker commentators sound like Hillary Clinton but somehow less cool and trying way harder.

For fuck’s sake people. I can’t even offer anything besides that because there’s no arguing with these type of people. Literally ANY study, ANY report, ANY info at all that you could try to show them to counteract what they believe and they just dismiss it as being untrue “because”.

That’s the shit of it, though, isn’t it? Of COURSE we know that not all men are rapists and abusers and stalkers and psychopaths. Of course we know that. In fact, most men are not like that. However, rapists don’t wear big signs, and stalkers don’t glow purple. So men have to keep in mind that, when they cold-approach…

Yeah. I love it when the rapists who enslaved me for years later apologize to my male family members and then my younger brother accepts those apologies on my behalf while I scream, “No!!!!’” I mean, what’s not to love?

One of the more shocking realizations in my life is that I am probably as uncomfortable using a non-gender-specific restroom as my great-grandparents were at using a non-race-specific restroom. (Note: I am not saying that race and sexuality are the same or that their civil rights movements are completely parallel).

Fuck yeah. I love this.