This has all been so bizarre to watch people become so invested and argue about an event that meant everything to me and had nothing to do with anyone else in the thread aside from my wife. The parsing of words, the semantic debates, the assumptions, the filling in of details of the lives of strangers...yeah, bizarre…

As the other party in the situation, let me be clear. While I can appreciate the great debate of my personal life on the internet, the point is, it’s my life...our life...and our choices about how we dealt with it. If someone were to ask if I’d rather we made our marriage better through other means, obviously, I’d say…

I was hesitant to chime in until people started suggesting violence. Here’s the deal, people. It sucked and was easily the worst period of my life. On the other hand, the last few years have easily been the best period of my life...funny how things work out that way. As for the anger...remember that part in the first…