I don’t think the putting it down is so much a problem as the not putting it up. I have two little brothers who still live at home and when I go to stay I invariably forget to look and end up sitting in a puddle of urine. It’s horrible. I don’t understand how they ‘forget’ every time.

Yes she could. It says she can read but prefers not to and can also tell the time but better on a digital clock.

Hi, not sure if anyone’s mentioned this but maybe you could use a different phrase than ‘wheelchair-bound’? I’ve heard people say it’s not true - a wheelchair is for mobility and is an empowering object a lot of the time.