If you're worried about what people outside of your relationship think about your relationship, you've got bigger problems than a name change.

And the type of women who would marry the guys quoted above, not only would understand, but approve of their viewpoint. And I've known plenty of guys who were happy to hyphenate and at least one who DID change his last name to match his wife's. People know what they're getting when they get it and are happy with…

Just hire Kieran O'Brien and done with it.

Cashmere sweaters are the easiest and cheapest things to buy, if you do so so right around Christmas.

I'm sorry but I do have cashmere sweaters and I can tell you without reservation that they do complete me.

Given that the entire tone of the article was just laudatory but even celebratory, I don't see what you're saying.

"...which essentially means that her personal style is not only worthy of praise, but also somewhat influential."

They responded quickly, appropriately, and decisively. They didn't waffle, prevaricate, or wait.

I wasn't clear, so I can see where you think that's what I believe is an alternative. I don't.

My only point is that few of us are without this particular sin.

Well, I guess it is black humor after all.

Good for you.

Yeah. The racists ones do.
See how that works?

They look like idiots and this whole thing reads like outcast teen girl wish fiction.

Really.

You're missing my point.

Exactly.

Really, I don't care. It's got nothing to do with me. He's no different than a black guy saying he wants only black women to contact him and that he thinks all white men have small penises or some other crap. He's an individual advertising for something he wants for himself. He's not advocating or promoting…

And we think about their skin color more than they do. So I guess we're even in our imaginations of "privilege".

I do not understand the interest in this man, who is merely saying out loud what others choose to hide. Just because you don't proclaim you'll only go out with white or black or whatever people, doesn't mean you aren't thinking and living that way. It just means you've hidden it well.