Absolutely not.

I've had a few friends who worked while their husbands stayed home. And in every case, the women still did the majority of the cooking/cleaning/childcare. Because the man is considered to be doing such a great and extraordinary thing by giving up his career, he's off the hook for everything else—he watches the kids…

I had to fill in some blanks and change up some things, but I think I got it. I think.

Oh yeah, I have those too. Dang.

stop looking at my hands

I've never seen anyone wearing their nails like that in the wild, but I am intrigued by their witchiness. What do I ask for to get those?

Maybe they'll name their baby girl North.

Transphobia is an everywhere thing, HedonismBOT. So is homophobia. Don't kid yourself. It ain't Tim fucking Hortons using a trans teen spokesperson.

I've worked with kids her age, it's better than it was for us, but not as easy as it seems from the outside looking in.

Oh hey look, it's the childhood I was robbed of!

She's a wonderful, brave young woman, but real trans acceptance won't happen until people are accepting of trans folk who have queer looks that don't conform to conventional masculine or feminine appearances.

I side eyed that too, but lets look at it this way: the most revolting part of this girl is her desire to murder and torture. Having a bf above the drinking age isn't so out there for her!

No hair eating possible. I have two styles, one is open on the end (so your hair hangs out the bottom and you move the dryer along the hair to dry the whole piece), and the other has a removable end that I take off. There is nothing for hair to get caught on. Never had a problem of any sort.

Here's what I use when I wear my hair curly (I can fight it into blow dried submission, when necessary) it's a diffuser sold under a couple names on Amazon or EBay for about $15, usually called something like Spin Curl or Wind Spin, and it's usually tinted plastic and looks just like a bong.

I vote you to write the column Curly Q's answering our curly girl questions.

Q about oil products: I gave those up back in the '80s because my skin just absolutely could not cope. It gave me enough PTSD to never try them again. Are today's oil products better on acne-prone skin?

I wish I had curly hair. Or straight hair. Mine is just sort of...frizzy bushy wave. Is that a thing for anyone else? I feel like its a thing

I couldn't really hide it, but I tried, and I do think I successfully hid the worst of it. I still live with all that, but I am in therapy and medicated and very open w the people in my life about it :)

Ignorance is bliss.