I've been the receiver of facials in almost every hetero relationship I've been in. My partners pleasure gets me hot, and if its something they enjoy that doesn't disgust me, I'll try it for/with them. My male partners have been super exited that a chick lets them do this, try it and mostly seem to be like. "eh, that…

"...because all of his previous partners preferred that he did it in his hand and then immediately went to clean up."

The first girl who treated me like crap, cheated on me, and stomped on my heart liked me to kiss her on the lips and hug her ... I now dislike kissing and hugging, consider them degrading, and would never allow them to happen again ...

Don't we see the same pattern over and over? Something is on the fringe > it gains popularity as the new edgy thing > by it's very popularity it becomes less edgy > it becomes relatively normal and acceptable > it's becomes redefined. So maybe whether it's degrading or not depends on where in the cycle it lies.