Hi! I’m a Tool fan! You seem nice. Want to high five?

And? Yeah, i wish they made more music. Does that make me like the music they made any less? no.

So much this.  We constantly ask people not to have complex or conflicting feelings.

You can be bitter and learn at the same time. Feelings can be complicated, like visual cues.

He was publicly embarrassed, because his date wouldn’t go home. She went home with him. She engaged in oral sex with him. She asked him to stop and he did. Instead of going home, she stayed and watched TV. She has agency too.

haha, you’re crazy, that was awesome.

There’s is something kind of hilarious about commentators on Jezebel not being able to accept that a woman can be every bit the villain as a man.

My ex boyfriend was catty, former male roommates have been quite gossipy. A male acquaintance is both. Not all people are catty and gossipy. SOME women are, SOME men are. I have used specific examples. You are using “men” and “women” in your argument, as absolutes.

There are certain men in my life who I definitely describe as catty and gossipy, BECAUSE THEY ARE.

There wasn’t anything women-blamey about using a specific example to poke holes in a blanket statement. I was pointing out the behavior of people I know. If we women can’t handle that, then something is wrong.

Ideally once everything else gets fixed - sexism, capitalism, colonialism, religion, crime - then anyone who wants to be a sex worker should be free to be a sex worker.

Dude, new Ghost album in just two days.