In September 2018. Was in an Uber pool in NYC with my friend. We are massive Real Housewives fans, and were riding through Chinatown. Suddenly I see a TALL woman walking on the sidewalk, and realize it’s Kristin Taekman. I ask my friend “is that Kristen from RHONY???” and she’s like “idk maybe” and the Uber driver…

I’ve never heard an argument against tipping well that doesn’t boil down to “I want restaurant menu prices to be kept artificially low through the tipping model but I don’t want to participate in the tipping model.” IE “I’m a cheap bastard who prefers stiffing servers of hard earned money so I can keep a few bucks in…

Every person I know in the service industry tips far above 20% because they have a unique understanding of the difficulties of the job.

It’s interesting to me that their moral stance on this is “fuck over the underpaid server” vs “not give the evil underpaying corporate restaurant my money.”

Those diamond studs sound gorgeous!

There’s literally zero other time my partner’s family and mine will be in the same place at the same time. I would love to bring them together for just one night and splurge on great food, drinks, and entertainment for them. There’s nothing wrong with that.

90% of businesses fail - tech is no better or worse.

So women are just collateral damage in a rapist’s journey to adulthood?

This looks like those towels at the gym that barely cover my ass and don’t wrap fully around it.

Everybody knows racism is bad - that’s not the problem. Most people don’t wake up and say “oh I’m super racist and a bad person.” No, what they do is try to deflect any and all accusations that they are anything besides a good, equality-minded person...because racism is bad, and their comprehension of themselves does…

White people have plenty of role models that look like them. There’s TONS of movies about racism told from the white perspective (The Help immediately comes to mind) - this is not a new concept that has never been done before. Somehow racism still exists. What we need to do is build white peoples’ empathy for the…

PoC are expected to relate with and empathize with the experience of white people everyday. White people are generally not expected to do the same. Kind of fucked, isn’t it?

Even moreso if Andi was an unpaid intern.

A millenial movie is more like: I can’t even get a full time job in my industry so I’m shuttling drunk assholes between bars at night to get enough money to afford an apartment 2 hours away from the nearest city, and I have zero job security or benefits.

The best makeup is the kind that LOOKS like you aren’t wearing much. I love her wedding look! She’s got that fresh-faced bridal glow.

Thank you! 

I love that in the reddit thread there’s three!! separate comments about how dating sucks because the women in SF are too unattractive.

Odd flex but ok.

Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I do admit that yes, sometimes a strange man coming up to a woman to help will not be received well by the woman. Sometimes the situation could be misread. Sometimes a man harassing a woman will get physical with a man trying to intervene in a way they might not with a woman trying…

I’m also going to be real with you: talking over a woman who has experienced something you have apparently not experienced isn’t a good look. I do not have a single female friend who has not experienced sexual harassment or assault of some form. I have personally played the role of friend of a stranger drunk girl to…