I am so very sorry for your loss.

My heart goes out to you. I am so incredibly sad for your loss.

I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about your fiancé, and I'm sorry about this violence. It is just so unfair.

Sorry but I just need to vent. If I see one more news story on this where they neglect to mention that this attack was directed at a Gay Nightclub, I might scream. So many news shows are clearly avoiding the fact that it was directed at the LGTQI community and is a hate crime. They keep saying “Nightclub” and that’s…

I’m so sorry for your loss.

I’m a gay man and I lost my fiancee to a brutal car accident just days ago. I’m still in shock and my grieving process is going through all sorts of motions. Sudden death is the worst heartbreak. I feel for the victims and their families and friends.

If you look at the history of this club, it was delibrately created to be a safe place for LGBTQ people. That was the intent of the woman who created it after her brother died of AIDS.

I’m so appreciative and grateful for Jezebel right now. Love to you too. <3

Sadly in this day and age it is so hard to find a truly safe accepting space. I’ve found it here.

Thanks for this space. I’m having a really hard time with this. I just keep thinking about being in my early 20's and going to gay bars for the first time and feeling so elated to be in such a fun and SAFE feeling space, to really feel a sense of community and to be able to let loose in a way that normal spaces would…

I want so much for her son to be okay.

Fuck.

I just keep thinking about this mother who hasn’t heard anything about her son. I want to believe the son is okay but I’m not feeling optimistic. http://abcnews.go.com/US/mother-man-…

The drive from the airport to downtown Houston: used car dealership - gun range - house - gun range - house - pawn shop - random large office building - house - church - house - car dealership - small factory - house - house - repeat - downtown. Highly restrictive is also pretty terrible either, but man, the…

When the only thing you’re known for is terrible chili and Jerry Springer, you deserve your ranking.

Any place you have to drive: not a real city.

Yeah, who wants to be able to walk to everything you need when you can become obese, ruin the environment and kill 30,000 Americans every year while paying thousands in car payments, gas, insurance etc.

Yeah not needing to own the most depreciating piece of property ever is only more points for New York.

You really don’t need to

Having lived in Los Angeles, Philly and Pittsburgh, I can’t believe the last two could ever score below LA. I admit I’m an east coast kind of person (though I love Yosemite!), but even so, living in Hollywood and North Hollywood sucked the will to live right out of my soul.