Wait, testicles are supposed to be the size of EGGS??

Yes, completely. I spent hours talking to Jill and her husband on the phone, emailing, etc, and when she explained why she kept talking to him with "well it's what he wanted from me," my heart broke a little. Because I recognized that feeling.

I literally hung up the phone from scheduling my annual GYN exam, and then opened my computer and read this story, so..... eeep?

Thank you. You can believe this doctor is an unethical creep and also look askance at this woman's highly convenient story of being an abuse victim. She contacted him on FB, she exchanged months of consensual sexts with him, and this "harassment" story only emerged after her husband discovered the affair and…

Ummmmm...alright. Obviously what he did is sanction-worthy, and he should have gotten punished a lot more severely than he did. But I do think "Jill" should damn well feel guilty, based on the screen captures posted. "Power disparities" is not an excuse to abandon any personal responsibility, and she is an adult…

"We must, we must, we must increase our bust!" - Old German military cry

You are so. fucking. awesome. Everything about this article was inspiring, insightful and well written.

This is really well-written, and exposes an issue underlying the teasing that I hadn't ever thought about before. When I was in 7th grade, one of my good male friends, who was a bit overweight, was constantly bullied (he was gay but not yet out, and bullies, like animals, can smell weakness). One of these bullies at…

I think calling gynecomastia "breasts" might be problematic. How do we define breasts? If we define them as a female sexual organ, then that requires they make milk and transwomen can't technically have breasts. However, I think breasts are a word attached to femininity and femaleness, whether inborn, performed,…

I was obese before puberty treated me like a patient lover; I was mostly just round, but what he said about verbal defense is so true. After being obese at 10 and gay at 14, all I can say is he's right about what you learn in the way of insulting people; by the time I was 15 I could be an utter twat almost on demand.…

Great job on working through things and developing that wit. It's a powerful tool that can serve you anywhere in life. And as a guy who sort of likes "moobs" (I like my men larger, so sue me. Muscley guys and chubby guys got em and I like em both as well as a chest with some substance!) I, obviously, think we need…

I'll admit it, I've used the "let me help you loosen up those pecs" line on the golf course before.

This just raises too many questions.