When my son doesn't want to go grocery shopping with Mom, and stay home with dad I tell him that dad is cleaning up dog poop, and toilets, he can help. Tune changes real quick. Or when my wife and I want to go to dinner alone. We tell him we are going to dinner to eat escargot. He would rather stay with Grandma.
if you only saw my monitor, i put stickies for priorities of stuff, if i could mark one was done and they all shifted over that would be fantastic. sometimes having the physical reminder in front of you than some organizing web app that i’ll never visit again is way better.