I have lived the BDSM lifestyle or many years. I am not sure why you are comparing a Dom/Sub relationship to a vanilla one. I am during the day a strong willed and minded woman. I do not think you completely understand the dynamics of the BDSM lifestyle. The bottom active submits to the Top, this is not the same a…

I also wondered why this lady didn't call the sex worker sooner and discuss the issue…I think she is not being honest about her comfort level with the situation and that is why she suggested calling the cops….or just get a new phone number.