I have chronic, brutal insomnia, but this shit is word Ambien—without the brief euphoria. I started to fall asleep.

I have had my share of serious health problems (almost died twice). I agree about health!

I am a former fattie. I had a good life before I lost weight, and do now as well. I don't make more money (tiny cost of living raises) than I did when fat. I don't have more sex than I did when fat. I had great friends when fat, and still have the great friends.

Cue the weight concern trolls. Sure, they aren't as bad on Jez as they are on other sites, but they'll get here.

Love the dress and shoes, and you have some great jewelry suggestions here already. Also, have you considered shoe clips? They would really go with the vibe of the dress and shoes.
Absolutelyaudrey.com has great ones.

The rest of the people here are too polite to say it, but I will:
You are a danger to society, to your own children, and the people you teach ( if anyone is stupid enough to employ you).
I say the following with total sincerity:
You are a bad person.

Try living near the Amish. Some vaccinate. A lot don't. We have lots of outbreaks around here.

Don't judge me: Dr. Sleep, by Stephen King is remarkably entertaining.

Your willingness to think things over before acting bodes well for your professional future. Kudos!

I've only been married once, and very happily.

No, it's not. People loathe weddings, for the most part.

Double post.

But as long as they can see their vests, they'll be happy.

It's all about personal preference.
My kind of preference, in his glory years, above. So you can see how Sinatra would not work for me,

No shoulders, jug ears, bug eyed. Since I have very blue eyes, his never seemed special. Give me a brown eyed man every time!

Agreed, and let's face it: Sinatra was pretty ugly, but Woody Allen is a full-on physical troll.

Obamacare IS going to happen. It will be improved over time, and we will, in fact, have what will essentially be Medicare for all. No joke. I am absolutely positive.