Please go to the National Diaper Bank Network to find out how you can help. Donate dollars—or diapers or wipes—to your local diaper bank (which you can find online at the National Diaper Bank Network). This is such a horrible, sad problem and it’s not going away anytime soon.

It was terrifying. I hate confrontation too so it was so hard to do.

Right? One of the bottles of wine she drank cost me $60. I was pissed.

Last summer, I let an old guy have it at the post office. He kept telling women to smile, and acting all self satisfied when they would. He was working his was down the line, and he got to me, and I exploded, “No! I don’t exist as a prop in your life, asshole! I don’t take directions from strangers, and I smile when I…

Final hummingbaby update: I took this pic in the morning and when I got home that night they were gone. I’m child-free, so this is the first time I’ve felt the bittersweet pang of an empty nest. But I once read that in some Native American traditions the hummingbird is said to come as a reminder of the joy in life.…

One of mine from a while ago:

I always say that I cook way too much, but I’ve also watched my husband eat an entire rack of lamb by himself.

My husband and I went to pick up the lamb today, and look who went with us!

I asked my roommate to move out. Things have been pretty shitty since the day she moved in and I’ve been trying my best to be understanding of her issues. She stole every bit of alcohol in my house and I let it go but last week she went into my bedroom and stole alcohol I had hidden there. I couldn’t overlook the…

I forgot about my hot cross buns.

I baked a lemon tart and these easter cookies.

Half a xanny before I see my family, and I bring nothing other than a bunch of wine that I drink because I’m single with cats and nobody expects anything else from me. #theyterrible #holidayssuck

I have to admit, I’m bristling at “being in the closet” being used to refer to a desire to paint. I am out (to be clear, as queer) in certain circles and with certain people and not with others and that fact hurts a lot and it is something I think about literally every day. People in my demographic face higher rates…

I’m still here. I know it’s off topic.

Hey guys I know I haven’t been commenting as much as used to. I just got out of a 11 yr relationship and I feel kinda lost, actually I feel very lost and sad as fuck. My whole life is there, his family meant the world to me, we adopted a dog together and that’s the thing that’s been hurting the most I can’t watch…

So, I did the super cliche thing on the Day of Visibility and came out as trans today to my friends and family who did not already know (all but about 6 people). It honestly went great. Tons of support, including from some family members I had feared might not be on board, no warnings that my soul would be condemned…

On Trans Visibility Day, let’s remember that trans people sometimes need abortions, too. Abortions are hard enough to access, now imagine being a trans person trying to find a provider and then trying to find a way to pay for it. Please consider donating to a National Network of Abortion Funds donor drive happening…

Listening to Florida Georgia Line, drinking a mild mannered red wine, also watching basketball. Oooh, new hair this week! Pale, cool platinum blonde with purple balayage, yay! I am literally changing everything in 2018 and it’s exciting! Here’s the hair. Oooh, one more thing! Pumpkinandy had a first date this week…

Love Your Kitties thread:

Excuse me, but if I had inherited an assload of money I couldn’t be bothered to start some twisted sex cult. Buying a huge house and 2 caregivers for each one of my Golden Retrievers? Check. Inventing an eco friendly business that can employ tons of people? Check.