The complete list of times when it’s appropriate for a white person to use the N-Word:

It’s fucking INSANE. 3.5 was write your own ticket territory when I was riding brontosaurs to school.

...so I see what you’re saying but can I say the N-word if-

I see your point. Maybe it’s not cyberbullying, but it sure is vile and petty. Especially since he was NOT really whining about it. This lady’s just a fucking bitch.

Her tweet was surely mean-spirited. But it’s hard to see how he can both have a national platform in an intense political debate and at the same time demand to be protected as a child.

I really hope we eventually get the catharsis of seeing at least some member of Trump’s scummy inner circle get jail time. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not holding out hope, because this is America, where wealthy and powerful people are allowed, encouraged even, to be disgusting pieces of shit.

I am so glad you found a way out. I definitely have issues where I sometimes get overwhelmed by sex, but my partners have been very understanding if i need to stop in the middle of things. I don’t even feel like I have to apologize for needing to stop. That’s the most healing part for me

That was pretty much my case. I was ungreyed twice, posted for ages with seemingly no problems, then silently banned for no obvious reason. I inquired in multiple ways, and got a very sweet tech guy who said there was no problem in his department. But no reply from editorial staff, ever.

I understand that. I’ve been grey for over a year and I still don’t understand how one gets ungreyed

Thanks for sharing your story. It’s so important that people remember how recently women were forced into dependency, not just by social pressure but by systematic restrictions of agency. I’m glad you made it out the other side.

I definitely will! I find pleasure in everything these days, probably because I am doing things on my terms. It’s like when you’ve been sick for a while and suddenly you are better and you forget how nice it felt to just be normal and healthy.

I am proud. On top of all this, I’ll be finishing my master’s degree in May and starting on PhD work. Thank you for your encouragement and support!

I got a DOG! Don’t know if that’s an achievement so much as a long and dearly held wish, but Buddy came home on Thursday. He is the greatest dog in the world and is already doing wonders for my activity levels, mental health and general quality of life. I’m completely in love.

I am 2 1/2 years out of a similar situation, and I am so excited for what is coming your way! Those first few months everything felt freeing, even cleaning my microwave at 9 pm on a Saturday because no one was pouting that I wasn’t sitting on the couch with him or telling me what I should be cleaning instead. I still…

My brother was killed in a wreck on Wednesday. He was 29. He was a good man, with a big heart. He overcame a lot of obstacles and had gotten his life headed the way he wanted to go, and then he swerved to miss a dog in the road. Just like that, one thing, and he’s gone.

Hi everyone! It’s been a while since I updated everyone. Several months ago I started posting about my abusive marriage and really appreciated everyone’s support as I prepared to leave. Now I am here to update everyone that I have been gone a little over 3 months. I am in my dream apartment. It might not be much to…

It is still too expensive for me. I can’t afford to dress ethically for $45-$65 for a tee or pullover. Would like to but can’t.

My brother and SIL’s dog is named Baskin, and we all call him Bassie, and I call him Bassie Boo., because he’s a good boy. Biebs + Bassie! That’s all I got for this comment.

Maybe you should join a Lego group? I don’t know where you live, but here is the link to the Los Angeles group. Maybe it will lead you to one near you. Might be a good way to get more comfortable in a group of like-minded people doing an activity that you clearly love. http://www.lugola.org/