God I love the running community. I trained for several 1/2 marathons with the my local club and anything went. The runners were probably some of the smartest people I’ve spent time with AND not nearly as preoccupied with the way there body LOOKS. Overall great experience.

I don’t think we have these issues in the running community. I just wear whatever the fuck I want and if it shows my fat dimpled ass, tough shit.

It didn’t help that I’m in a bad mood but I’m over criticism of women in connection to the movement. It exists in the first place because of male abuses of power so can we just not have a go at a woman who isn’t wearing the right shade of black* and remember that Weinstein and Spacey and the rest of them are rapists…

Being emotionally unengaged helps us better reason about the facts.

I have been living with this girl for 6 months. There is a whole host of backstory that I didn’t feel like going into because I just wanted to vent.

I think I am done with roommates after this anyway.

I’ve mentioned in a couple of replies that I don’t want to divulge this girls personal issues on here which is why I did not go into details into why this is a shitty situation. No, these aren’t inappropriate behaviors but they ARE making me uncomfortable in a home that I own and she has done prior things to make this…

I’m really sorry that you have this break-up looming.

Speaking from my own experience, I think there is a good possibility that as you get space from this man and this relationship, you will start to see that he treated you in ways that were unkind and that you won’t want to put up with in the future. Which can be really weird and painful but also healthy and sort of…

Vulcan? Fascinating.

“do I just cut it all off now and start getting over it, or do I try to see him as much as I can before it has to be officially over?”

I’m really sorry. I’m sure you must be hurting a lot. But also, and this will be harsh, this dude sounds like an asshole. It is immensely unkind to say “we can be together now but at x point we’ll go completely dark and never speak again.” That sounds like a cruel and selfish move. I hope you will have the strength to…

Thanks. I have a vacation planned for the beginning of March so I’m hoping the week break helps my coping.

Oh man, I went through something similar a few years ago. It sucks.

I don’t mean to sound insensitive, but why aren’t you cutting off contact immediately? Or why isn’t he? If he’s already in this committed monogamous relationship I’m not sure the start of a marriage is the right time to end things. I think continuing to talk with him and setting a future end date is only holding you…

Exactly. These Wannabe Vulcan guys are all the same... They’re scared of what they’re feeling, so they put on this hysterical “I’m rational and emotionless, I’m not like you weak humans and your feelings” front. But it’s always a facade that comes with a wobbly lower lip, because what they think sounds like…

And such a weirdly specific one! I like it!

Maybe his head is really big?

He had hand reduction surgery so he could pretend his cock was bigger.