She seems like a bitter, miserable human being who lashed out because she thought she could get away with it. “Right mind” presumes she had a basically good intelligent mind to begin with. I’m guessing not. Bitterness, misery, hatred, and stupidity can combine to seem like mental illnss, or a personality disorder, or…

I cleaned my bathroom today, I mean really cleaned it. Scrubbed the floor on my hands and knees, went over it 3 times, washed the walls, the whole nine yards. First time since my ex moved to South America a few years ago. I like how it looks less like I’m living in a seedy film noir hotel room.

Could you order some nice things online? You deserve to feel not-crappy!

So far, not a lot of true justice has been done, though. As in, legal proceedings, convictions, and incarcerations. Labor practice legislation. That sort of thing. And we still have a confessed assaulter for a president...that’s one of a few reasons some of us are reluctant to celebrate and/or gloat.

So a murdering *priest* gets to go to heaven just by confessing?

“Oh and by the way could you give me some Hail Marys so I get absolved? Thanksbye!”

Along with a bunch of things traditional in the Catholic church, seems like it’s time for this to be revisited as well.

There’s a How You Can Help link: http://www.davidermold.com/

Can’t get enough of that old time sanctification feeling!

I couldn’t find anything that would both not irritate my eyes and really remove mascara, waterproof eyeliner, etc. Lots of ill advised scrubbing at the delicate eye skin for years. In desperation one night I tried coconut oil - just the stuff you get for cooking. Fantastic. Massage it in and it gets all the stuff off…

IMO it’s normal to have doubts about your perceptions right now. You’re taking a big step that you’ve probably talked yourself out of before, amirite? One way we stay in abusive relationships is by letting the gaslighting and confusion start affecting how we judge and reason. I’ve found that asking myself this helps a…

Thanks so much for putting this all together. It’s horrifying how vile people can be when they can’t be identified IRL. This individual appears to be seriously troubled. I feel so bad for the targets of their bullying.

A bajillion stars for you. And your partner.

A few months ago I had this - ocular migraine. Shimmery colorful sparks traveling in a kind of banner across my field of vision, and then a blind spot. Scared the hoo-ha out of me. Went to the ER even.

My thoughts exactly, only put in a coherent manner....unlike my actual thoughts pre-coffee.

Some dudes wouldn’t care.

Nobody gets a break for being ancient, are you kidding?

That person is dead by now.

All of these are superb recommendations. I was going to add:

May I say: Really appreciate the support Jalopnik is providing us today with all the suggestions for making it out of Thanksgiving alive. Not a gearhead, more a general geek, but I’ll take what I can get.