While he was making six figures, to boot. He left them high and dry then, but we’re supposed to feel sorry for him now? .

No, it’s not. Nowhere in the article did it say she posted it on the internet, for one thing. Cheating on one’s spouse, videotaping it, and then expecting it won’t get shown to anyone when it’s discovered is beyond reasonable.

That’s possible, but another reason could be this crush is so hot and heavy that his current relationship seems dull by comparison. And that is coloring his memories of the past. That is something he should consider. Dr. Nerdlove’s advice about taking the thrill from this crush and funneling it into his marriage is…

It does matter. If one is going to make a documentary like this, they need to resist the temptation to leave things like that out of it. It does make it appear as though they are trying to present a narrative and not actual facts. I understand that it isn’t about actual guilt but how flawed the system is. That’s why…

My problem with this is, I think people should be able to self identify, whether it’s race or gender. I believe in promoting fluid identity, and think attacking her harms that. I don’t think people should lie, but the constant focus on the fact that Rachel lied is harmful because it sends the message that identity is…

It can be a tactic for abusers, but in and of itself it isn’t abusive . Relationships need intimacy, and intimacy requires tradeoff. You cannot form intimacy while maintaining boundaries. You cannot maintain the same level of individuality as a single person while in a relationship. Not everyone is the same, of…

Do not follow this advice. Telling a cheater not to their spouse access to their accounts to earn back trust will ensure that the marriage will end. If the cheater wants the marriage to work, this is absolutely the worst advice to follow. Thinking that one can cheat and still keep that trust is laughable