Whether or not people hate Friday weddings should have no bearing on what you ultimately do, although it's cool that you're conscientious. We married on a Friday night, and despite the folks who say that taking time off, etc., is burdensome—think of it this way: for a traditional Saturday wedding, wedding rehearsals…

I grew up in the hinterlands between Denver and Kansas City (I also briefly dated everyone's favorite NFL linebacker named Simoneau in high school), and after this kerfuffle the one piece of advice I would offer is to approach is local, small-town figures like Pfalmer with wily yet calm skepticism. High school…

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The fact that Lena regularly sounds like an asshole gives me a good reason to think that....she's an asshole. The fact that she's the rest of those things (wealthy, smart, successful, etc.) has nothing to do with the fact that.....she's an asshole. Of a totally different make and model than a misogynistic asshole. But…

Ditto. We all can hope......