I’m a straight male and I love it! I also really care about helping my mate orgasm. Every. Time.

In my experience the best sex comes when you put the most focus on your partner’s enjoyment. Of course, you need to trust that they will put their focus on your enjoyment; if that’s not happening, there’s a problem.

Many men have similar problems, usually in men it’s called performance anxiety or stage fright, and is extremely difficult to overcome.

It’s certainly easier to tell if a guy is “there yet”.

Hmm... in my experience in conversations with males, they generally are very concerned about making their mate orgasm. For one, it’s an ego boost and point of pride for the person in control (often the male) to give the partner an orgasm. Additionally, it’s just more sexually stimulating if you know your partner is…