And the attacks on her actions afterward on social media about how a woman should not use social media to report bad behavior. And the people who took it upon themselves to call the woman's company's customers, hooded of course,...this IS KKK shit.

Speaking of passive-aggressive...in the aftermath, dudes took it upon themselves to get her company's customer list and harass the customers to push for her firing.

You know, like ladies should act, putting down other women.

People, the attacks on the woman who reported the cruddy behavior of men is KKK shit.

It is a nasty culture. Not all people are taliban when it comes to women. And by Taliban, I mean that attitude that women are responsible for everything everywhere and everyone's feelings.

You've assigned "flying off the handle" to the female developer quite easily.

ditto.

Aw sweetheart, let's bring up your actual quotes. No semantics. Just quotes. From you.

Sweetheart, you're back!

"I seriously just took issue with her jumping straight to plan C, when plan A could possibly have worked, and plan B (talking to the mods) did work."

"This might be one of those rare times when the issue of sexism in tech is misplaced on two men who were just immature. "

Thanks, grandma, for adjudicating all of this for us.

Thanks for crawling up in the guys head and interpreting. He's just a misunderstood puppy. OF COURSE the dudes that are verbally grossly sexist always admit it and are cured, and never deny. All the time, when dudes are confronted, they are never doing that thing you said they did and you don't get the joke. Har, har.

And if it wasn't....?

Yeah. Right. Can you believe people defend sexist dudes?

Yes they were though. Commenting on the images of women on stage at the time, they wittily commented how these women deserved their dongle.

Worked well in what sense? Being forgettable? Not making a fuss - being the "cool girl" about it? Perhaps if she Shushed over half-glasses and a strand of pearls?