Everyone is not you, you are right. It's like saying no one can have a healthy relationship with alcohol, which would be absurd.

Disagree on every point, but your very last one. And I'm a woman.

I agree with ChalupaBatwoman. As someone else said above, human sexuality (& the way we’re mentally wired) is such a complex & diverse thing. I'm sure for different people, the healthiness/helpfulness of porn is just as diverse.