OH MY GOD THE DOLLAR STACK!! Sadly this is more common than you would think. I've encountered it several times over the years. But only once was I actually able to do anything about it.

Her life is essentially ruined.

No you aren't really a Jew, because that's an ethnicity as well. And you can't convert ethnicity. The two are not comparable. The analogy does not work here.

If this had been a 'mentally unstable' dude fantasizing about doing some bodily harm to women, y'all would be favor of locking him up and throwing away the key. But because she's pretty and young, we're acting like wanting to join a fucking monstrous terrorist organization means she's just a naive girl in need of some…