dnicbelle
Dbelle
dnicbelle

Exactly. I’m currently partnered but am far and above the “breadwinner” in the relationship. My home is modest but nice and clean, I have plenty of friends and family, and if he had billed himself as a slacker looking for something else, I’d still be single.

Yea, not to brag, but I provide a pretty good life for myself as a single gal. I bring in a decent income, have a vehicle I like, I can rent a nice apartment, I have my own Netflix account, I can buy myself stacks and stacks of books to read in peace and quiet, and I never have to clean up after someone who isn’t me

Maybe, just MAYBE, if men referred to us outside of a tool to get a result (sex), a Rubics cube to decipher (emotions and motive), or livestock to be purchased and used (labor) then women would be more open to relationships.

Quoted from the great oral sex connoisseur of our our time, Lil' Kim: