On point. I find the Mon El characterization not only bad, but dangerous. This trope of women going for the badboy who disregards their wishes, while setting it up so the badboy "becomes a better man" for them sets young women up for not only disappointment, but abuse.

^^^THIS THIS THIS THIS

The erasure of Clarke's feelings for Lexa, her complete blankness when mentioning her name, her quickness to try and extend some sort of forgiveness to Bellamy…all of these things are frustrating the shit out of me when it comes to Clarke.