I've had enough experience speaking with poly folks to recognise when they start spouting off about how enlightened their choice of lifestyle is. Because they always do. Its insufferable, really.

To each their own, I suppose, but a man who can't go without sex for a few months while I am carrying his child is not the sort of man with whom I would want to spend my life.

I've never cheated or slept around outside of relationship with permission for that matter. It's actually an extremely uncomplicated thing. Thanks for making me feel like a prudish simpleton though.

Nothing left to say but you are being taken advantage of. Okay, I lied. I have more to say. Guard you heart and have a fantastic lawyer. Dear God. My husband read this post and said this guy is a flat out shithole. He cannot imagine how much you believe in this guy.

of course lots of people do it, and the majority of them never shut up about it actually

In other words.............

Yeah, and board shorts are for man-boys, and/or dummies. They are the dumbest looking thing a human being can wear.

never-nudes

Sort of like the automatic "two fingers under the butt area of the suit" pull that women do when they come out of the water because invariably our suits creep up our butts?

I think it might have been meant more tongue-in-cheek...on Jezebel, when women are talking about boob sizes or wearing thongs or shaving their ladygarden or whatever, there's always a bunch of guys who jump in with absolute assurance that everyone cares about their opinion, and they spout shit like WELL, ***I***…

My friend's son is 9 and just this summer started wearing Under Armour "compression shorts" under all of his swim trunks. You can rarely persuade him to go without. When asked why they're so important, he waffles out a vague "I just like them" response, but his mom and I assume it's because he thinks it looks cool.

Well, I'm a girl, so I can't speak to the advantages/disadvantages of wearing undies under your swim trunks comfort wise, but I do remember this was all the rage to do back in middle school (swim p.e. specifically). My assumption was that the "cool" boys did it so they could sag, since most of em had the big baggy…

I hate board shorts. I wish men would wear classic trunks.

Wearing wet underwear against my junk and thighs sounds awful. The dick outline thing was an issue when I was 13 but now I just make sure to pull the fabric away from my junk as I exit the ocean/pool like a normal person. And if you get piss dribble in a swimsuit you just go in the water. DONT WEAR SWIMSUITS TO PLACES…

Wearing boxers under board shorts is apparently an east coast thing. It's awful, and should be mocked at the earliest opportunity.

This always struck me as a teen boy sort of thing. I think I'm a little older than the group of kids that I first saw doing this.

I have never had a problem with the mesh and if you wear darker trunks no one can even see your dick. Also: who is looking at your dick? Not me! I'm just looking at you being dumb and wearing underwear under underwear.

Maybe she only gets the "nice, respectable" catcalls for upper-class white women like, "hello beautiful" and distant wolf whistles from men who don't turn around and follow her. Seems like one earnest v-tongue gesture might change her mind.

I think the main issue is that men can think about ANYTHING and still orgasm. In fact thinking of horrible, boring or terrifying things are all ways to stop orgasm that only partially work. The women I've known well enough to have the discussion with all say that they need that perfect mental track to get there. The…