Oh, honey. Nope.

Does he recognize that his behavior is not rational? Is he willing to seek counseling or take steps to modify his behavior? None of this sounds very good. It in fact sounds extremely bad.

Yeah, I think wanting to have sex with someone else is a lot more understandable than wanting to go tell random teen girls on the internet to kill themselves.

See, the funny thing is that I'm mostly the same person online as I am in-person. Occasionally a sarcastic asshole. I'm a WYSIWYG kinda guy, I suppose.

I agree with the MotherOfUnicorns. He sounds like the type of guy that will get far worse after marriage, too.

My suggestion would be to leave. He will only get more possessive & jealous. He is trying to drive away all your friends to isolate you & force you to stay with him. It's emotional abuse.

Not a therapist, not any kind of relationship expert, but what the everliving fuck? He calls your ideals feminazi ideals? He has said things mean enough to drive away your friends? He doesn't respect your ability to have platonic relationships?

I agree. That's pretty vile. However, just to play Devil's advocate, there's a pretty strict policy against that too (targeting bloggers' children, friends, family, etc.) and most commenters who start in on kids get ripped apart by others pretty quickly.

Pretty easy to lead a double life when you barely speak to your wife (as the fight total would suggest).

Two possible explanations:

So, abuse is the only reason to need counseling? I'm pretty sure once actual abuse happens, you're well beyond "counseling," and on to "run far, far away and never return."

Sorry your wife found your Reddit posts.

Hey nice to meet you, pregnant lady's douchey husband.

I'm positive you're a white dude. With a carpal tunnel brace.

Doxa plays this militant black person shtick on most of the gawker sites. Best to not engage.

I've never assumed All Trolls were reclusive shut-ins: People are fucking assholes. I always just assumed that popular and/or successful people are equally represented in the Asshole population along with the shut-in incel type.... in the same way that your rapist is as likely to be a well-dressed hubby/father type as…

Rape porn guy is back. Is it wrong that I was kind of hoping he died? Like, maybe he choked to death on a pizza roll and nobody heard him gurgling and sputtering in the basement?

He's just enjoying a hobby, telling people to commit suicide to relax during his "me time." Like you do. <commence daydrinking>

In our 9-year relationship, we've fought three times total.

"In our 9-year relationship, we've fought three times total."