HERE are PERSONAL photos from our PRIVATE relationship. AND here is another SENTENCE with RANDOM words CAPITALIZED.

For REAL though, WHAT is with THE capitalization? SUCH weird EMPHASIS

Okay, what I really want to know about Juan Pablo right now is WHY does he INSIST on CAPITALIZING random words IN his POSTS?

stop YELLING at US, you VENEZUELAN douche BAG.

I was 32. I didn't wait by choice, and I definitely felt a level of pressure and a stigma for being a virgin. Don't let people get to you. It will happen when it happens, and not much really changes.

I'm glad that your first time was made as special and comfortable as possible due to the fact that you waited until you were with someone that you truly cared for and who was able to support you through some of the less pleasant aspects of loosing your virginity (pain, emotions, etc.). I don't understand the people…

I too am 31, and I am in the same boat. I used to get stressed about the online dating thing, but honestly, there's no reason to. I figure I'll either want to do it or I won't. You don't owe those guys anything. Like you, all I'm "waiting" for is someone that I want to be intimate with. I say go out with lots of guys…

That's my experience, too. You FEEL like you're the only one, but there are plenty in the same boat. It can be tough when you're the only one in your group of close friends, though.

I engaged in internet dating as a 24-year-old virgin (admittedly a sketchy one), and I was fortunate enough to only get to the point of talking about it with the guy who would eventually become my husband. My advice would be to spend a lot of time getting to the know the person via email and phone before seeing each…

Basically, either way you get blamed and shamed. Not a virgin? Blamed. A virgin? Shamed.

I'm a virgin for far different reasons but there is so much about this post that I agree with.

I appreciated this even though I was a religiously motivated virgin myself. I dislike that my motivation to abstain is often treated with ridicule (particularly in feminist conversations) because while my faith does dictate that I shouldn't have sex prior to marriage, I chose to follow it. It felt good and right with…

This was an excellent read.

I have been laughed at by a female gyno when I said I am a (late 20s) virgin. Just...not cool.

Thank you. I'm still trying to come to terms with this myself, as a 31-year-old, who isn't at all uninterested in sex, not particularly religious, admittedly long-term single. I just haven't had the right opportunity with the right person, when I've been in the right frame of mind, and I'm not willing to have sex…

I was over 30. So, yeah, people did look at me a little weird. But, that is because they have an expectation they needed me to fit into. Generally, I'm not the type of person to do something just to fit some timeline or fit into someone else's understanding of what I need to do. Sex was no different.

Embrace what works for you. I lost my virginity at 22 (or possibly 23, I'm not sure?), and I am sensitive to the idea that virgins feel stigmatized because at the time I seriously felt like the Last Virgin Standing. What's interesting is that I realized [much] later that a lot of people weren't having sex, it just…

Not to generalize too much, but honestly, being a (stereotypical, American, 21st century) guy sounds kind of horrible to me.

I don't know if that's a reason to stop giving advice. When I have a problem, I ask a group of probably five people for advice. I listen, I weigh view points, and then I make what I consider to be the best decision I can based mostly on the information given, but probably also in small part about the way I feel…

I don't think it's possible for him to love anyone but himself.