And that's a huge problem I've had with past relationships. I'm blind, sure, but I'm also bilingual, with a job that easily pays enough to support a full family, multiple advanced degrees, world travels, and awards for my art and design. My prior relationships I loved because we could talk politics, or talk smack in…

I did, here, as best I could.

I don;t care if they "enjoy me"- I guess this is the hard thing to explain to someone who doesn't not want sex?

I have a married couple set of friends like that. Unfortunately, they live in suburbia that I can't reach via public transit (blind, can't drive) so I have to rely on them coming to me. And the husband works conventions while I work as a consultant, so weekends are hairy at best for him, weekdays are a nightmare for…

Since this is getting long, here's some TLDR.

the genetic condition I mentioned in response to another why I don't want to birth my own kids? I'm legally blind. Physichal attraction isn't even in my list.

Reverse. My parents are appalled I'm not interested in sex. They're very sex positive (other than my father being a homophobe), and my family is Jewish which doesn't have some of the fundie hangups I've heard from my Christian friends. I'm very sex positive. If you enjoy it and it isn't hurting anyone, why not? The…

That's what I figured. I'd like to find this mysterious local asexual guy or gal who is emotionally compatible and has enough interests that would compliment. I'm not looking for someone who likes everything I do- that's stupid and boring. But we need to enjoy doing some things together, and have a general idea of…

Yes, in theory at least. I haven't been in a relationship like that but I am not jealous. Anti-jealous? But I can't say yes to something I have never done.

and here's the rub... I'm totally good with casual contact. I like cuddling and holding hands. I'll kiss of the other really enjoys it but it doesn't do anything for me other than feeling kinda... Like being licked by a dog in the face?

that's not really the issue. I'm okay with being "sexed at" but since I get no pleasure from it I've had more than one guy tell me what I want them to do to me and I'm like, "I'm good"? I'm not going to lie and demand sex acts I have no desire to have.

thanks. :)

I'm willing to try... but my parents (father particularly) is pretty homophobic.

that was OK Cupid- I remember because I'm a data analyst and they have some of their data annonized for people to run statistical anaylsis on

I'm already straightforward on my profile that im asexual, and pretty clearly lay out what that means. Unfortunately, after I did , the only people contacting me are those who see the double-Ds in my profile pick and expect a lay. and those I contact dry up quick.

Well I'd love to adopt and raise children with someone someday (asexuality aside, I have a severe genetic disease I have no desire of passing on). Someone to share my life with. An emotional connection. Friends are great but... They're not the same. I'm not even sure how to put this in words?

Okay. Maybe you guys can help a girl out. I am asexual. I would love someone in my life- more than, say, a friend or roommate. Someone to cuddle and he with on a level past friend. I hate kissing. I don't like being touched in most places and I have no desire for the horizontal tango. I've tried conventional dating…

...what. Borderlands makes sense. It's comedy and has interesting world holding. Minecraft IS world building.

Etrian Odessy, duh. The map you make yourself.

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