I guess I was directing my anger in the wrong direction thinking had they not had that many children it wouldn't have happened to that many people. And what about Ben and Derek believing they married virgins or did they know too as Anna is claiming she knew?

Yes I suppose your right

If Michelle and Jim Bob wernt so busy having child after child after child after child they might have caught Josh after the first child or maybe he wouldn't have been able to do that at all had they been a little more observant and took more time with the children they had instead of having more and more and more. …