That her enjoyment is messing up their chexual performance. That they consider this a valid complaint is several levels of wrong.

It was like tailor-made to crack my dad - he was born to 40-something parents (his siblings are 12 and 14 years older), the protagonist of FoD was also and never really got to know his father before he passed. The protagonist runs into a 20-something version of his dad playing baseball on the field, has an awkward…

And, y'know, that's fine. There's two participants here, and you've got to work together.

I never saw my dad cry *except* for the line from the end of Field of Dreams: "Hey dad, want to play catch?" It's more a father-son thing than a sports thing, but still.

I figured.

Sometimes I'm being deliberately obtuse. This is one of those times.

…I don't remember that line…

She wan't my wife when we met, she is now. I wanted to distinguish her from my first wife.

Not too bright can be worked around. Not too bright *and* won't follow instructions? Fatally flawed, return to sender.

It could mean he was an-all around great father, could be a "Fences"/"I Never Sang For My Father" situation.

Man, follow and learn. I'd rather be asked to replicate what works instead of assuming telepathy.

Thanks, I guess, but my underlying point was that it varies more from person to person. Multiples are easy for my wife, whereas her best friend struggles mightily to have one.

I think that describes a lot of immigrant communities, past and present.

My wife has had multiples with relative ease in the past, and has complained that it made her feel like people were treating her like a toy.

My solution was to break up to be with my future (and present) wife. Worked out for me. Given that she met her future husband shortly thereafter, it worked for her too.

If nothing else, we are rock solid on things that *don't* work.

I *do* watch baseball and I didn't get it till your comment.

Irony was that she'd just lost a bunch of weight after getting gastric bypass…

They don't. There are gay men who don't enjoy an@l sex, and it doesn't change their orientation.

As a fellow divorcee, I get to remind you to consider the source of any advice Kas offers.