My issue with both guys is that they make their feelings for Olivia her problem. It's just another problem for her to handle. Olivia's feelings and needs, unfortunately, never seem to get vocalized, much less addressed.

I completely agree. Both Jake and Fitz treat Olivia like a possession
and only seem be able to express their feelings for her sexually. To me, their behavior completely undermines the assertion that what either man feels more than lust for Olivia. It also makes Olivia look desperate to continue to agree to…